The key to be delivered from rejection is receiving God's perfect love. It casts out fear and rejection is basically fear that you're not acceptable.
You are accepted. You're accepted by GOD, Jesus and Holy Spirit completely. They love you and everything about you. They have always loved you and will always love you. Even before deliverance, They LOVE you.
It's true that our upbringing and experiences affect how we receive and perceive GOD's love, but Jesus' blood can overwrite anything that doesn't align with truth.
Spend some time meditating on The Word and noting the times His love is mentioned. Keep a notebook/journal specifically for mentions of GOD's love so that you can refer to them whenever feelings of rejection creep in. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by The Word so as you speak those verses they will build your faith to be strong enough not to believe the enemies' lies that you're not enough as you are.
Dad, I know in my mind that You love me and fully accept me. I confess I don't know it in my soul and spirit. I repent of believing the lie that I'm not completely accepted by You. I cover that lie in the Blood of Jesus and cancel it. I release the Fire of God on that lie to burn it up and destroy it so that it falls to the ground and dies, never to be picked up again. Jesus came to destroy the works of darkness and that lie is now destroyed in my life. I love You. Thank You for loving and accepting me. Thank you for healing my soul of every trace of rejection and restoring me so that I can prosper in my relationships and other areas of life. I am accepted because of Christ and I decree that rejection is finished in His mighty name. Amen.
If you haven't taken my spiritual growth course, "Adopted," I highly recommend it. In the course you learn how to commune with GOD consistently and specifically to come to know Him intimately as Father. The course is available for download at Supernatural You.
What others say about ADOPTED:
I just wanted to let you know I am having the most beautiful time of worship, especially after watching Adopted part 2 today. It brought me back to a place of intimacy that I knew with God when I was a single mother, except it is even more meaningful now because I have greater revelation of who He is and I have studied the Word more intensely during the past year...but wow...I really needed this. I love hearing you talk about your experiences with the Father. I don't often hear people talk about Him that way, but you describe Him in the same way that I have come to know Him and I desire to know Him more deeply. I know that beyond anything I do, my mission is to draw people into relationship with the Father...to show them His Love and that it is possible to be intimate with Him and find love, joy, peace, and abundant life...I am so happy to receive deliverance from the cares of this world so I can really get back to enjoying my Father's presence. Thank you for this amazing teaching Zari! ~ R.S.
Whew !! ... I just did Day #1 LESSON of ADOPTED ... this is quite a day. I identify with this topic. Did not have parents who knew Jesus and did not talk about Him or know how to open up about personal things at all. We were clothed and fed but not really nurtured. Sometimes I can’t feel God’s love = like the real love of Jesus. Hope to soon!! ~ S.H.
Hi Zari ... so I have to come back and apologize to you. I said I wasn't an orphan but I had to go back and revisit Day 1. And I am, an orphan adopted by God. I'm on Day 3 and I'm starting my studies on relationships ... to gain understanding why we don't accept the relationship with God immediately. I'm learning to change my words. I needed this week away to focus and strengthen my faith the more. I love you and I'm still pressing forward. ~ S.W.
Copyright © 2016 Zari Banks, M.Ed
I'd like to encourage you to take my spiritual growth course, "ADOPTED: Knowing God as Father." I give this course to all of my mentoring clients because we all need it. The course is $25 with $5 OFF for sharing on FB or Twitter, and it's worth every penny. Lives get changed from this course. In addition to this course, get PWPP Volume 15 Dad (available for Kindle) which is also about knowing Him intimately.
ADOPTED: Knowing God as Father is a Holy Spirit Boot Camp(TM) spiritual growth course that breaks you out of the mindsets and bondages of rejection, abandonment and being a victim. God has always planned to call us His sons and daughters and we need proper revelation of what all that means so that we can approach Him as such and receive of everything that comes from belonging to Him. This is one of my favorite courses - if not my absolute favorite - because as I taught it I received a new freedom in my soul that allowed me to reach a higher elevation for my destiny. My destiny is great so I needed this breakthrough and I praise Him for placing it on my heart to impart this wisdom with others.
"I just wanted to let you know I am having the most beautiful time of worship, especially after watching Adopted pt2 today. It brought me back to a place of intimacy that I knew with God when I was a single mother, except it is even more meaningful now because I have greater revelation of who He is and I have studied the Word more intensely during the past year...but wow...I really needed this. I love hearing you talk about your experiences with the Father. I don't often hear people talk about Him that way, but you describe Him in the same way that I have come to know Him and I desire to know Him more deeply. I know that beyond anything I do, my mission is to draw people into relationship with the Father...to show them His Love and that it is possible to be intimate with Him and find love, joy, peace, and abundant life...I am so happy to receive deliverance from the cares of this world so I can really get back to enjoying my Father's presence. "
"Praise God! I started today's video almost 2 hours ago--had to stop a few times to digest what God was revealing to me. Zari I had NO IDEA that whatever Jesus asked God for, I can ask Him for too!!!! So many revelations! My pen was flying through my journal; understood the orphan spirit truly in that moment. Ignorance of God's word and lack of spiritual knowledge (which may be the same) keep us in bondage under the orphan spirit!
Worship was awesome! When I got back to this realm the video was over! I was in a beautiful place. I saw all the intimate details of creation. I was in a meadow and...*getting emotional* that same God--Elohim created ME with that same amount of detail. So He WANTED me! God WANTED ME! Even if my earthly father didn't. I didn't know and it shaped my life.... Love you Zari! God may have created you because He wanted you but He knew the world would NEED you."
"I did want to let you know that you were right about the Adopted course. This one ended up being the most important. Two things really hit my spirit:
Not knowing who I really was, I've always struggled with how to respond to situations. And the spirit of rejection...I don't even know where to begin. In this course I could literally see myself hovering over every situation in my past and can point and say "spirit of rejection". I spent my whole life in it. I realized it to some extent growing up but this course really opened my eyes."