This is the third installment of my summer 2014 series “Let’s Be Real Here,” that shines the light of Holy Spirit revelation on relationships and on the dysfunction we love and that our society promotes and profits from. I’m addressing these issues here because I’ve learned quite a bit - and am still learning, of course - about relationships that please Father. There are several behaviors that we exhibit that we assume are godly, but are not. If we want to experience the fullness of abundant life in Christ we must behave as salt and light; we have to stand out and show the world there’s peace and success within committed, loving relationships that allow men to be spiritual leaders of the home and women to come alongside them for the glory of God.
Today I'm going to share various revelations Holy Spirit released to me after I submitted myself mind, body, soul and spirit to be purified and remade in preparation for a Kingdom marriage. A lot of this information stems from questions I've received, and it usually follows that if one person asks, several others need to know the same thing.
Some of your unions are being held up and something in this post is the information you've been missing that's been blocking your mate's release to you. The revelations you receive need to be implemented - acted upon - in order to become wisdom. Until you put it into to practice it's just theory and theory doesn't put you on the path to your promised land.
Let's get right to it:
All this stuff takes time to work out. Deliverance is a process. That's why we need to think before we act. That's also why the enemy wants us bombarded with junk, so we don't have clarity of mind to think but instead do stupid things based on how we feel and what we want rather than on wisdom and the Word of God. I used to be as dumb as they come so I'm trying to help as many folks as possible not have to suffer all these consequences. All of these choices mentioned here are decisions made outside of the Word and will of Father. Therefore, with proper wisdom we can decide right now to choose God's way and stop setting ourselves up for relationship dysfunction.
Copyright © 2014 Zari Banks, M.Ed